My boyfriend and I spent the weekend at his mothers while she was gone. I had to work so I left and came back for him. While he was packing his PS3 I opened his lap top to shut it down and when I opened it there was a folder full of pictures open. All I seen were little girls. I got really nervous and shut it down. I sat quietly on the couch trying to figure out how to deal with this. I was going flip the hell out but after two long minutes I finally decided to ask him what the hell it was I just seen. He looked at me confused and told me to start the computer up and show him. The folder he found more in wasn’t the ones I seen. He deleted the ones he found right away. We talked about this the whole way home. He said that he was disgusted with what he saw and he doesn’t know how they got there. We’ve been together for a little over a year. He doesn’t like being around kids. I never would have thought he’d be into something like that. It really grosses me out. When I’m with him I don’t want to believe he knew they were there. But my question is… Why would the folder be open while I was gone. The folder couldn’t just open itself could it? He has no reasonable explanation as to how the pictures got there other then the simple fact that he didn’t use the computer the entire time we were there. I could see him jacking off to porn while i was gone but he says he didn’t use it. How the hell does a folder just open itself? Is it possible that his computer has a virus or he downloaded these pictures when he downloaded other porn unknowingly. I talked to my mom about this and she said this is my sign to get out. It’s just so damn hard to say goodbye to someone I’ve seen everyday for the past year and break up with him over something that may or may not be true. In the back of my mind, I know what to do. That isn’t right. It all just hurts too much.


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10 Responses to “While shutting down my boyfriends computer I found pics of little girls. Do I believe they weren’t his?”

  • Doctor Ashley says:

    yes
    and tell the police as soon as you can
    he is dangerous and weird

  • emma82020 says:

    hes a pedo u can stay with him and know he likes to fu ck little kids or u can get out now ur choice

  • Izzy says:

    WTF???? Go to the authorities NOW! Tell them what you saw and even that being “deleted” they still have a way to see it. That’s f*cking sick! If he rapes a little child, it’s on you now.

  • boundandgagged says:

    Who else was there.No matter what age or gender.

  • Angel Devil says:

    well invistagate if you see it again break up with him. you do not want to be a girl living like that. good luck!

  • TheBora says:

    unfortunately they’re his, and he’s sick. Its hard to end it but I think you must as in the long run he’ll certainly cause you a lot of pain.

  • Ford_Craney says:

    If he bought the computer used it could have had a virus, someone else may have messed with the computer if he left it somewhere where others could get at it or he is just plain lying to cover his behind.
    Acts as if you totally believe him and nothing is wrong,and when he is in,say the shower or runs to the store or something ,check out his computer.
    I think your mom may be right though hon.

  • rosemarie_07663 says:

    No, it is not possible that his computer has a virus.

    Your mother is right, this guy, is sick, he needs help, going with a guy, who enjoys watching little children, is sick.

    Ask, yourself, what if you married this guy, and had a child, would you be able to trust him with the child?

    Let go, there are many nice guys out there, don’t go with a man like this.

    Thank God you found this, it is a sign.

    Good luck.

  • *I'm Sour* says:

    Dirty pictures of little girls? If not then you have no reason to worry. If we are talking about child porn then you need to find out if he is into that sort of thing. Maybe the reason he doesn’t like children is because he is afraid he will try something. Pedophiles have a mental illness and it needs too be cured. When he is away, check his history and click on any links that seem suspicious. I know it seems wrong to go through his personal business but you need to find out before it’s too late. If you see anything confront him but not in a mean way. Tell him you love him but you are afraid he will end up in jail. Send him to a therapist or a mental doctor. It is also possible that the pictures are pop ups from a porn site ruining his computer. The best way to get the truth out of him is to tell him you are concerned for him and want to help him before it is too late.

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  • David says:

    It is possible that it was a virus. Hackers are extremely intelligent and are finding new ways to program viruses and trojans…

    And if it was a virus you are right it probably came with other porn…

    The way to figure out if your boyfriend is telling the truth is to manipulate him to see his reaction.

    How to do that you ask?

    Well some of the other people’s answers on here suggest alerting the police about these photos… Let’s put a little spin on that shall we?

    Sit down with your boyfriend and let him know that you “believe” that he didn’t purposely download these photos and make him feel like every things ok. Now try to convince him to turn in his laptop to the police and report that child pornography was sent via a virus. (BTW the police have ways of tracking down stuff even if its already deleted on your computer.)

    Now observe his reaction… Here are some possible outcomes

    If he is nervous or angry and shows resistance to it- make him feel guilty for not wanting to turn it in for the sake of the children that have their photos randomly throw around across the internet.

    If he tries to make an excuse for not turning in his computer- make him feel guilty for not wanting to turn it in for the sake of the children that have their photos randomly throw around across the internet.

    (yes the first one and second should have the same response)

    He might tell you something that he didn’t inform you of before… Be ready for something bad.

    There is also the possibility that he will gladly give his laptop to the police. If he is willing to do that then he likely is telling the truth and it is was a virus of sort.

    Good Luck

    Little side note here…

    Since you told your mother about this I guarantee that your mother will never look at him the same again and she will look for excuses for why he isn’t the right for you and drama is bound to happen.

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